Looking back, this is where it began. I had the courage to ask for what I wanted in bed, and my wife was happy to oblige. I had been exploring anal play on my own. Then my wife started using fingers and toys on me. I FinalIy bought the pegging beginner's kit and plucked up the courage to ask my wife to peg me. rnI've seen so many videos pretending to be "the first time" I thought it would be fun to actually record my first time. I had no idea how intense it was going to be. I think it re-defined how I thought of myself and definitely showed me how pleasurable sex can be.rnI was 40 years old. Don't wait until you're 40. Start earlier.u2028I was a bit preoccupied with the cameras. We were shooting using two SD cameras onto DV tape and a stills camera that was on a remote trigger. u2028I was keen to try the "man-sized" dildo, but wisely followed my wife's advice to start with the "beginner." I figured she was the one with the experience with cocks. :-) She was pregnant with our second child at the time. rnI think this marked a high point in our relationship up to that point. And the openness that she showed to sexual exploration back then has given us the wonderful relationship we continue to have today.rnNow, ten years later, we are successfully polyamorous -- we both have other partners; I have had my nipple pierced; she's got a tattoo. I've topped a guy and have gone down on several real penises! So we've come a long way since we filmed this. rnLong may it continue.

We have been married 15 years. We were saying today we'd like to have a sexual adventure with each other. I had suggested to one of my other partners the idea of doing an MNLP video and tonight we decided to do one ourselves.We put the kids to bed, and turned on the cameras.We wanted to set up a camera to shoot his facial expressions, but finger trouble meant that didn't work out.Thanks for the opportunity. I think we're both a bit exhibitionist and this is a fun way to demonstrate that sex continues after 50.

We like having sex outside. We wanted to have sex in a beautiful place and the verandah of our bungalow at the edge of the desert was magnificent. She typically has an orgasm on his hand first before we start with any penetration. He prefers missionary position, but we often end up doing it from behind in these videos -- he climaxes more reliably that way. While filming this intro, two men walked past the front of our bungalow on their way to the lodge restaurant, about 500m (500 yards) away. It made me think about consent, exhibitionism and voyeurism. You're watching this because we want you to; those men didn't necessarily want to see two naked strangers as they walked past. Having said that, we were discreet. We made sure we were concealed by a wooden pole wall. They didn't realise we were naked until they literally walked past us. We didn't even realise there was a path in front of us! It was a bit awkward seeing them in the restaurant over the next two days.

We nearly didn't post this.
It's a really intense raw scene. I think this is the kind of sex that Make Love Not Porn is supposed to promote. It shows the preparation; the awkwardness of trying a strapon dildo for the first time. The huge amounts of lube we used to make sure the anal was going to be safe and fun. It also showed something almost going wrong. After using the strapon, she penetrated him with her fingers. At one point it was so intense he just wanted to give up. But after a short break, she used a stainless steel buttplug on him and witnessed an epic orgasm. You can us chatting after the scene and debriefing what just happened. Later that night we made love again, which was just as intense -- but we didn't catch it on camera. If you're into pegging and seeing two real people orgasm, this one is for you.

He used bondage tape to tie her the lounger outside. Then the Satisfyer did its job and she even squirted a little. He was very aroused in his chastity cage, but no orgasm for him...

She didn’t want to be on top. So how did he react? “OK! For the next ten times, you’re on top. You’re welcome to wake me up and ride me any time. In fact, I insist.” That’s difficult for her. She feels exposed. She feels indulgent.How would you react to that? An invitation to indulgence? One of the privileges of this platform (MLNP) is that we get to see the authentic responses of real people having real sex. This was the second or third session of our “obligatory cowgirl” experiment. And he decided to film her face as she was riding him. You can actually see her expression as she comes. And then he gets off as well. You will hear the conversation that all lovers have about their relationships as they have sex. He teases her about her being on top — she likes it, she’s aroused by it, she’s exposed by it, and he gets off on it too. It’s ten minutes long. That’s all we needed.

We went away for a Dirty Weekend to a country hotel near us. Our anniversary is coming up (it's Christmas day) and we wanted to connect with each other intimately ahead of the silly season. We had a wonderful time. These weekends can be really transormative and offer an opportunity to really get to know each other again. We played with a butt plug, which is something we very seldom do, so that was a vulnerable moment for him.rn

We went away on a weekend before the end of year rush. The timing was actually sub-optimal because it was the end of term time for the kids and getting away was hard. But we had a voucher for 50% off, and so we really wanted to use it. We hired this amazing hotel room with a pool and a deck. It was quite private. We could see that the other chalets were occupied, but not what people were doing. We spent two days lounging around, ordering room service, drinking the champagne we brought with us and connecting with each other. That resulted in quite a lot of sex. We made two MNLP vidoes -- one where she used a butt plug on me, and this other one, where we played with each other in the pool. It was a magical weekend and one we will treasure.

We went on a rare "dirty weekend" in the country. It had been raining for a week and the river was in flood. We had a lovely chalet near the river which was very private. We spent most of the weekend naked, enjoying the early autumn sun. Our plan was to have sex outside and film it. We were very near the river and the river was very loud, so we used my phone to record the sound for the intro -- or you wouldn't hear anything.rnWe have recently started having more doggy style sex, which makes us both come really hard.

It's Ricky here: We haven't made a video with each other for ages. I have another partner of about two years, and she and I are much more active making videos.rnMy wife had a favourite pair of trousers, which she wore to death. They started out white, but she dyed them black. They became frayed and worn and stained with bleach. Eventually she decided she would get rid of them. So I said: let's tear a hole in them and I can fuck you through the hole. Give them a proper send off. So that's what we did.rnIt's such a silly, fun thing to do. Thanks for watching!rn