Sex education. Redefined.
Real world sex.
Real world love.
Real world education.
Real world life.
The world’s first real world sex videosharing platform, for real world sex education - where everyday people, all around the world, share their real world intimacy naturally and authentically. Trusted by therapists and educators. Built for everyone 18+.
"Your website makes me want to have sex in a more grown-up, honest and respectful way."
Why it matters
Because love, intimacy and human connection has never been more important.
Our founder Cindy Gallop identified back in 2009 with this TED talk that porn was becoming sex education by default. Today, that is universal fact. We're changing that, by providing the only real world counterpoint to porn. MakeLoveNotPorn is the documentary to porn's Hollywood movie, celebrating the full glorious spectrum of human sexuality, and transforming sexual attitudes and behavior for the better through sex education via real world demonstration.
Subscribe NowThe first video I've rented on MLNP. I found myself grinning the whole way through and I'm still grinning as I write this. It was obvious that your video really was made with love and it was beautiful to watch. Thank you so much for posting it.
— MakeLoveNotPorn member (man)
This was our first month renting videos & it was the best $10 ever spent. We've been married 20 years but our sex life had been suffering for a long time. The videos are so fun to watch, and the couples are so genuine. It's like we learned how to make love all over again. Sincerely, thanks for saving our marriage.
— MakeLoveNotPorn member (woman)
What's inside
Find inspiration at every lifestage
18+ content, age-gated and 100% human-curated with no self-publishing. Our Curation team watches every video submitted from beginning to end, before we approve (or reject) and publish. We also review all profile posts and video comments before we approve and publish, to keep MakeLoveNotPorn a safe and loving space. At MakeLoveNotPorn we showcase loving real world sexual experiences shared by our real world MakeLoveNotPornstars for an adult audience. You won't be able to subscribe unless you are 18+. You can get a sense of some of our videos below by theme, and subscribe to watch.
Just Having a Really Great Time
See how real couples love each other — playfully, passionately, and on their own terms. No scripts, no performance, just genuine connection and joy.
Most popular
Sex Through Life's Changes
From menopause to post-surgery recovery, see how real people keep intimacy alive through life's biggest transitions.
When Your Body Works Differently
Real stories of great sex with vaginismus, erectile dysfunction, endometriosis — honest, practical, and never clinical.
Postpartum, Fertility & New Parenthood
Reconnecting with your body and your partner after birth, through fertility journeys, and into the beautiful chaos of new parenthood.
Contraception, STIs & Safer Sex
Practical, real world guides to enjoying a healthy sex life — navigating contraception choices and having great sex while managing STIs.
5000+ videos across dozens of curated real world themes, to educate and inspire at every lifestage.
We publish new videos every day. You have to be 18+ to access.
Who it's for
Made for everyone
Couples
Deepen intimacy and navigate the conversations you haven't had yet
Individuals
Understand your own desires, body, and what a healthy sex life looks like
Therapists
A trusted patient resource for conversations that start in your office
Educators
Supplement sex ed with real, honest content for adults
Parents
Learn how to talk to your kids — and understand the world they're navigating
Simple pricing
Less than three coffees per month. No surprises.
Monthly credits. Explore every collection. New videos added daily.
Or start with our Welcome Bundle — rent individual videos before committing to a subscription.
Quickie
$10
per month · 5 video rentals
- —5 video rentals per month
- —Unlimited viewing for 4 weeks per rental
- —Weekly curated emails
- —Stream on any device
- —Switch or cancel anytime
Daymaker
$30
per month · 30 video rentals
- —30 video rentals per month
- —Unlimited viewing for 4 weeks per rental
- —Weekly curated emails
- —Stream on any device
- —Switch or cancel anytime
Binge
$50
per month · 50 video rentals
- —50 video rentals per month
- —Unlimited viewing for 4 weeks per rental
- —Dedicated daily video pick from Cindy
- —Weekly curated emails
- —Stream on any device
- —Switch or cancel anytime
Welcome Bundle · One-time
Not ready to subscribe?
Start with a taste.
The Welcome Bundle gives you video rental credits to explore the library at your own pace — no recurring charge. Credits expire in one year. Age verification still applies.
Age-gated access. 18+ only.