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MakeLoveNotPorn was born in 2009 out of founder
Cindy Gallop’s direct personal experience dating younger men.

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Today MakeLoveNotPorn is the world’s first user-generated, human-curated social sex platform - the Facebook of #RealWorldSex: sharing that one area of all our lives no other social platform will allow.

Our social sex videos aren't just something you watch and enjoy - they're inspirational self help for your sex life (just read our members' comments on each video to see how).

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There is no self-publishing on MakeLoveNotPorn.

Our curators watch every video submitted from beginning to end, before we approve (or reject) and publish it. Our curators also review every profile post and video comment before we approve (or reject) and publish them. No one else does this.

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When you subscribe and rent social sex videos, 50% goes to the MakeLoveNotPornstars in them.

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Our Curators are here to help you. Are you looking for something specific in #realworldsex? Would you like education, inspiration, solutions for any sexual issues you’re encountering yourself? Want to try something and would love to see how it works in the real world first? Email curators@makelovenotporn.tv for recommendations and guidance.

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See what our members say:

RaisedByRabbits
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The first video I've rented on MLNP. I found myself grinning the whole way through and I'm still grinning as I write this. It was obvious that your video really was made with love and it was beautiful to watch. Thank you so much for posting it :)

silken.rose
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Ohhh! I just rented this as my first rental ever, and here on MLNP. I just adored it! Your cheeky, embodied, authentic and potent sexuality were a joy and turn on to behold. There was also something really healing in it for me in my view towards men in sexuality as a woman and all that I've inherited til now as that. Thank you so much <3

Crazy Injun and Bird
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Love to see that intro conversation, was heart warming and funny and just wonderful. Glad to see there are other happily married folks still in love with each other.

Lola8587
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I felt empowered and emboldened in my own sexual agency while watching this video. Thank you for this gift.

maisielynn9695
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what the actual F. I've never in my life felt compelled to comment on a website. But that was HOT. Like possibly the hottest thing I've seen, period. Beautiful people with a beautiful connection. ❤️❤️☺️

lyndarosela
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Beautiful to watch. Very empowering to see a woman with my body type being sexual. 

Grey Shadow
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That was exactly why keep coming back to this site. You are so obviously a real couple with lives together. You can see it in the banter, the kissing, and the laughing. You're like a couple I could meet in the market except that you two just let me into your bedroom and let me watch you have really hot sex. Very nice of you I must say. 

THE BEST VIDEO EVER! What charm, what chemistry, what senses, what expressions, and what not! Extremely hot, beyond capacity of the English language to describe. THE BEST! You are beautiful! I am addicted.

itstartedwitha
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I loved this! Thank you for sharing something so intimate. Your uninhibited and unselfconscious sex is joyous but the snacking, pets wandering by, messing around with the covers, stopping for drinks, choking on said drink,  cleaning up with a t-shirt, yawning etc are all what makes this so wonderful. together with all the loving foreplay and after play this video is #realworldsex #couple goals thank you thank you thank you

costlycolours
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This is just so special.  Watching it turns me on, yes, but also it's a great comfort to know that what I sought all my life (and sadly never found) can exist between a couple - a deep, loving trust that frees you to really connect and give and receive pleasure as naturally as breathing.  I was right not to settle for less than you two have.  

How lovely you are xx

LowkeyAwk
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Stumbled across this and even the preview itself was highly enjoyable. Seeing you both sharing in the moment actually brought me back to my own awkward experiences, and it reminded me of that joy that comes when you can just be intimately yourself with another person. Dare I say, this is wholesome.

nwdccouple
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This is such a wonderful video. Thank you for making it and sharing it with us. I am one of those people who has always been interested in anal stimulation, but uncomfortable with how it is portrayed in conventional porn. This presentation is so real, so gentle, and so beautiful. I hope your partner enjoyed it as much as I did. You are beautiful. Thank you!

heatmonkey
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This is the sex and intimacy I want in my life! This was sweet and hot and beautiful!

Elboogey
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One of the most amazing videos I've ever seen. You two together are just incredible. I was equally educated and turned on at the same time. I want to try this with my partner. The intensity, the passion, the loving caress, the cuddling, the aftercare. You two are absolutely fantastic lovers.

I'm a man who has viewed conventional porn for decades for self pleasuring. It's become to predictable and to shallow for me as my own standards of what I desire to get turned on have changed. But it's been my only alternative. I can imagine hot sex scenes but there's something I truly miss seeing it with my eyes and hearing the sounds. Thanks to MLNP I can enjoy watching people getting it on again. It's a WHOLE NEW FEEL in sexy video viewing. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

RainbowLover
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Perhaps, the BEST video of two people enjoying the absolute fuck out of each other that I've EVER seen!!! The love, the passion, the joy you take in giving to & receiving from one another, I want to join in soooooooo badly. And there's nothing wrong with breaking the 4th wall in this context. It felt like I was in the room with you already. 🔥🔥🔥 So H-O-T, HOT!!!

RaisedByRabbits
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The first video I've rented on MLNP. I found myself grinning the whole way through and I'm still grinning as I write this. It was obvious that your video really was made with love and it was beautiful to watch. Thank you so much for posting it :)

silken.rose
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Ohhh! I just rented this as my first rental ever, and here on MLNP. I just adored it! Your cheeky, embodied, authentic and potent sexuality were a joy and turn on to behold. There was also something really healing in it for me in my view towards men in sexuality as a woman and all that I've inherited til now as that. Thank you so much <3

Crazy Injun and Bird
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Love to see that intro conversation, was heart warming and funny and just wonderful. Glad to see there are other happily married folks still in love with each other.

Lola8587
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I felt empowered and emboldened in my own sexual agency while watching this video. Thank you for this gift.

maisielynn9695
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what the actual F. I've never in my life felt compelled to comment on a website. But that was HOT. Like possibly the hottest thing I've seen, period. Beautiful people with a beautiful connection. ❤️❤️☺️

lyndarosela
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Beautiful to watch. Very empowering to see a woman with my body type being sexual. 

Grey Shadow
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That was exactly why keep coming back to this site. You are so obviously a real couple with lives together. You can see it in the banter, the kissing, and the laughing. You're like a couple I could meet in the market except that you two just let me into your bedroom and let me watch you have really hot sex. Very nice of you I must say. 

THE BEST VIDEO EVER! What charm, what chemistry, what senses, what expressions, and what not! Extremely hot, beyond capacity of the English language to describe. THE BEST! You are beautiful! I am addicted.

itstartedwitha
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I loved this! Thank you for sharing something so intimate. Your uninhibited and unselfconscious sex is joyous but the snacking, pets wandering by, messing around with the covers, stopping for drinks, choking on said drink,  cleaning up with a t-shirt, yawning etc are all what makes this so wonderful. together with all the loving foreplay and after play this video is #realworldsex #couple goals thank you thank you thank you

costlycolours
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This is just so special.  Watching it turns me on, yes, but also it's a great comfort to know that what I sought all my life (and sadly never found) can exist between a couple - a deep, loving trust that frees you to really connect and give and receive pleasure as naturally as breathing.  I was right not to settle for less than you two have.  

How lovely you are xx

LowkeyAwk
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Stumbled across this and even the preview itself was highly enjoyable. Seeing you both sharing in the moment actually brought me back to my own awkward experiences, and it reminded me of that joy that comes when you can just be intimately yourself with another person. Dare I say, this is wholesome.

nwdccouple
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This is such a wonderful video. Thank you for making it and sharing it with us. I am one of those people who has always been interested in anal stimulation, but uncomfortable with how it is portrayed in conventional porn. This presentation is so real, so gentle, and so beautiful. I hope your partner enjoyed it as much as I did. You are beautiful. Thank you!

heatmonkey
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This is the sex and intimacy I want in my life! This was sweet and hot and beautiful!

Elboogey
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One of the most amazing videos I've ever seen. You two together are just incredible. I was equally educated and turned on at the same time. I want to try this with my partner. The intensity, the passion, the loving caress, the cuddling, the aftercare. You two are absolutely fantastic lovers.

I'm a man who has viewed conventional porn for decades for self pleasuring. It's become to predictable and to shallow for me as my own standards of what I desire to get turned on have changed. But it's been my only alternative. I can imagine hot sex scenes but there's something I truly miss seeing it with my eyes and hearing the sounds. Thanks to MLNP I can enjoy watching people getting it on again. It's a WHOLE NEW FEEL in sexy video viewing. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

RainbowLover
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Perhaps, the BEST video of two people enjoying the absolute fuck out of each other that I've EVER seen!!! The love, the passion, the joy you take in giving to & receiving from one another, I want to join in soooooooo badly. And there's nothing wrong with breaking the 4th wall in this context. It felt like I was in the room with you already. 🔥🔥🔥 So H-O-T, HOT!!!

RainbowLover
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Perhaps, the BEST video of two people enjoying the absolute fuck out of each other that I've EVER seen!!! The love, the passion, the joy you take in giving to & receiving from one another, I want to join in soooooooo badly. And there's nothing wrong with breaking the 4th wall in this context. It felt like I was in the room with you already. 🔥🔥🔥 So H-O-T, HOT!!!

I'm a man who has viewed conventional porn for decades for self pleasuring. It's become to predictable and to shallow for me as my own standards of what I desire to get turned on have changed. But it's been my only alternative. I can imagine hot sex scenes but there's something I truly miss seeing it with my eyes and hearing the sounds. Thanks to MLNP I can enjoy watching people getting it on again. It's a WHOLE NEW FEEL in sexy video viewing. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

Elboogey
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One of the most amazing videos I've ever seen. You two together are just incredible. I was equally educated and turned on at the same time. I want to try this with my partner. The intensity, the passion, the loving caress, the cuddling, the aftercare. You two are absolutely fantastic lovers.

heatmonkey
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This is the sex and intimacy I want in my life! This was sweet and hot and beautiful!

nwdccouple
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This is such a wonderful video. Thank you for making it and sharing it with us. I am one of those people who has always been interested in anal stimulation, but uncomfortable with how it is portrayed in conventional porn. This presentation is so real, so gentle, and so beautiful. I hope your partner enjoyed it as much as I did. You are beautiful. Thank you!

LowkeyAwk
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Stumbled across this and even the preview itself was highly enjoyable. Seeing you both sharing in the moment actually brought me back to my own awkward experiences, and it reminded me of that joy that comes when you can just be intimately yourself with another person. Dare I say, this is wholesome.

costlycolours
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This is just so special.  Watching it turns me on, yes, but also it's a great comfort to know that what I sought all my life (and sadly never found) can exist between a couple - a deep, loving trust that frees you to really connect and give and receive pleasure as naturally as breathing.  I was right not to settle for less than you two have.  

How lovely you are xx

itstartedwitha
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I loved this! Thank you for sharing something so intimate. Your uninhibited and unselfconscious sex is joyous but the snacking, pets wandering by, messing around with the covers, stopping for drinks, choking on said drink,  cleaning up with a t-shirt, yawning etc are all what makes this so wonderful. together with all the loving foreplay and after play this video is #realworldsex #couple goals thank you thank you thank you

THE BEST VIDEO EVER! What charm, what chemistry, what senses, what expressions, and what not! Extremely hot, beyond capacity of the English language to describe. THE BEST! You are beautiful! I am addicted.

Grey Shadow
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That was exactly why keep coming back to this site. You are so obviously a real couple with lives together. You can see it in the banter, the kissing, and the laughing. You're like a couple I could meet in the market except that you two just let me into your bedroom and let me watch you have really hot sex. Very nice of you I must say. 

lyndarosela
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Beautiful to watch. Very empowering to see a woman with my body type being sexual. 

maisielynn9695
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what the actual F. I've never in my life felt compelled to comment on a website. But that was HOT. Like possibly the hottest thing I've seen, period. Beautiful people with a beautiful connection. ❤️❤️☺️

Lola8587
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I felt empowered and emboldened in my own sexual agency while watching this video. Thank you for this gift.

Crazy Injun and Bird
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Love to see that intro conversation, was heart warming and funny and just wonderful. Glad to see there are other happily married folks still in love with each other.

silken.rose
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Ohhh! I just rented this as my first rental ever, and here on MLNP. I just adored it! Your cheeky, embodied, authentic and potent sexuality were a joy and turn on to behold. There was also something really healing in it for me in my view towards men in sexuality as a woman and all that I've inherited til now as that. Thank you so much <3

RaisedByRabbits
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The first video I've rented on MLNP. I found myself grinning the whole way through and I'm still grinning as I write this. It was obvious that your video really was made with love and it was beautiful to watch. Thank you so much for posting it :)

RainbowLover
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Perhaps, the BEST video of two people enjoying the absolute fuck out of each other that I've EVER seen!!! The love, the passion, the joy you take in giving to & receiving from one another, I want to join in soooooooo badly. And there's nothing wrong with breaking the 4th wall in this context. It felt like I was in the room with you already. 🔥🔥🔥 So H-O-T, HOT!!!

I'm a man who has viewed conventional porn for decades for self pleasuring. It's become to predictable and to shallow for me as my own standards of what I desire to get turned on have changed. But it's been my only alternative. I can imagine hot sex scenes but there's something I truly miss seeing it with my eyes and hearing the sounds. Thanks to MLNP I can enjoy watching people getting it on again. It's a WHOLE NEW FEEL in sexy video viewing. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

Elboogey
Watch Video

One of the most amazing videos I've ever seen. You two together are just incredible. I was equally educated and turned on at the same time. I want to try this with my partner. The intensity, the passion, the loving caress, the cuddling, the aftercare. You two are absolutely fantastic lovers.

heatmonkey
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This is the sex and intimacy I want in my life! This was sweet and hot and beautiful!

nwdccouple
Watch Video

This is such a wonderful video. Thank you for making it and sharing it with us. I am one of those people who has always been interested in anal stimulation, but uncomfortable with how it is portrayed in conventional porn. This presentation is so real, so gentle, and so beautiful. I hope your partner enjoyed it as much as I did. You are beautiful. Thank you!

LowkeyAwk
Watch Video

Stumbled across this and even the preview itself was highly enjoyable. Seeing you both sharing in the moment actually brought me back to my own awkward experiences, and it reminded me of that joy that comes when you can just be intimately yourself with another person. Dare I say, this is wholesome.

costlycolours
Watch Video

This is just so special.  Watching it turns me on, yes, but also it's a great comfort to know that what I sought all my life (and sadly never found) can exist between a couple - a deep, loving trust that frees you to really connect and give and receive pleasure as naturally as breathing.  I was right not to settle for less than you two have.  

How lovely you are xx

itstartedwitha
Watch Video

I loved this! Thank you for sharing something so intimate. Your uninhibited and unselfconscious sex is joyous but the snacking, pets wandering by, messing around with the covers, stopping for drinks, choking on said drink,  cleaning up with a t-shirt, yawning etc are all what makes this so wonderful. together with all the loving foreplay and after play this video is #realworldsex #couple goals thank you thank you thank you

THE BEST VIDEO EVER! What charm, what chemistry, what senses, what expressions, and what not! Extremely hot, beyond capacity of the English language to describe. THE BEST! You are beautiful! I am addicted.

Grey Shadow
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That was exactly why keep coming back to this site. You are so obviously a real couple with lives together. You can see it in the banter, the kissing, and the laughing. You're like a couple I could meet in the market except that you two just let me into your bedroom and let me watch you have really hot sex. Very nice of you I must say. 

lyndarosela
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Beautiful to watch. Very empowering to see a woman with my body type being sexual. 

maisielynn9695
Watch Video

what the actual F. I've never in my life felt compelled to comment on a website. But that was HOT. Like possibly the hottest thing I've seen, period. Beautiful people with a beautiful connection. ❤️❤️☺️

Lola8587
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I felt empowered and emboldened in my own sexual agency while watching this video. Thank you for this gift.

Crazy Injun and Bird
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Love to see that intro conversation, was heart warming and funny and just wonderful. Glad to see there are other happily married folks still in love with each other.

silken.rose
Watch Video

Ohhh! I just rented this as my first rental ever, and here on MLNP. I just adored it! Your cheeky, embodied, authentic and potent sexuality were a joy and turn on to behold. There was also something really healing in it for me in my view towards men in sexuality as a woman and all that I've inherited til now as that. Thank you so much <3

RaisedByRabbits
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The first video I've rented on MLNP. I found myself grinning the whole way through and I'm still grinning as I write this. It was obvious that your video really was made with love and it was beautiful to watch. Thank you so much for posting it :)

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