Looking back, this is where it began. I had the courage to ask for what I wanted in bed, and my wife was happy to oblige. I had been exploring anal play on my own. Then my wife started using fingers and toys on me. I FinalIy bought the pegging beginner's kit and plucked up the courage to ask my wife to peg me. rnI've seen so many videos pretending to be "the first time" I thought it would be fun to actually record my first time. I had no idea how intense it was going to be. I think it re-defined how I thought of myself and definitely showed me how pleasurable sex can be.rnI was 40 years old. Don't wait until you're 40. Start earlier.u2028I was a bit preoccupied with the cameras. We were shooting using two SD cameras onto DV tape and a stills camera that was on a remote trigger. u2028I was keen to try the "man-sized" dildo, but wisely followed my wife's advice to start with the "beginner." I figured she was the one with the experience with cocks. :-) She was pregnant with our second child at the time. rnI think this marked a high point in our relationship up to that point. And the openness that she showed to sexual exploration back then has given us the wonderful relationship we continue to have today.rnNow, ten years later, we are successfully polyamorous -- we both have other partners; I have had my nipple pierced; she's got a tattoo. I've topped a guy and have gone down on several real penises! So we've come a long way since we filmed this. rnLong may it continue.

We have been married 15 years. We were saying today we'd like to have a sexual adventure with each other. I had suggested to one of my other partners the idea of doing an MNLP video and tonight we decided to do one ourselves.We put the kids to bed, and turned on the cameras.We wanted to set up a camera to shoot his facial expressions, but finger trouble meant that didn't work out.Thanks for the opportunity. I think we're both a bit exhibitionist and this is a fun way to demonstrate that sex continues after 50.

The surprising thing about playing with rope is that the BDSM porn doesn't do it justice. We wanted to capture the intensity of sensation with this video. This is only the second time we've played with this full body harness. We have a lot to learn. We had a few hours one morning and decided to try a "karada" rope harness on camera. It was really intense. We will probably do more of that soon

We went on a rare "dirty weekend" in the country. It had been raining for a week and the river was in flood. We had a lovely chalet near the river which was very private. We spent most of the weekend naked, enjoying the early autumn sun. Our plan was to have sex outside and film it. We were very near the river and the river was very loud, so we used my phone to record the sound for the intro -- or you wouldn't hear anything.rnWe have recently started having more doggy style sex, which makes us both come really hard.

We had been wanting to have sex in the garden for a long time. Finally we got a chance when the kids were out the house and it was warm enough to play outside. We were keen to reconnect with each other -- it had been a tough few days.

Before we were MakeLoveNotPornstars we used to bring out the cameras for "special occasion" sex. That often meant pegging. This was a Saturday night. He loves editing the movies and getting lots of camera angles. For this video we have re-edited it very lightly to preserve the real world sex that it is. We're both much more comfortable in front of the camera in this video. He started off wearing a butt plug to warm himself up. After she pegs him, they end up in the missionary position. After he finishes, he heads south to give her some delicious head.

We nearly didn't post this.
It's a really intense raw scene. I think this is the kind of sex that Make Love Not Porn is supposed to promote. It shows the preparation; the awkwardness of trying a strapon dildo for the first time. The huge amounts of lube we used to make sure the anal was going to be safe and fun. It also showed something almost going wrong. After using the strapon, she penetrated him with her fingers. At one point it was so intense he just wanted to give up. But after a short break, she used a stainless steel buttplug on him and witnessed an epic orgasm. You can us chatting after the scene and debriefing what just happened. Later that night we made love again, which was just as intense -- but we didn't catch it on camera. If you're into pegging and seeing two real people orgasm, this one is for you.

He used bondage tape to tie her the lounger outside. Then the Satisfyer did its job and she even squirted a little. He was very aroused in his chastity cage, but no orgasm for him...

Richedge writes: rnWe are polyamorous and I live with my nesting partner. My other partner and I work from her home together. On my way into work today, my partner said: "Bring your cameras." rnWe do video podcasting as well from time to time -- so it's not an unusual request, but I thought this seems different -- she wants to shoot a video.rnAnd indeed that was the case. She asked me to blindfold her and tease her and edge her for the camera. I was only too happy to oblige. Our deal is: if she touches me with her hands, I stop. I had to remind her several times to stop touching me!rnThis time was different -- we've been together a year, and she's never used an anal toy on me. I had been craving that for a while and so we broke out the stainless steel butt plug.rnOur 2019 resolution is to shoot more MNLP videos, so it was a real pleasure we could do that today.

We went away on a weekend before the end of year rush. The timing was actually sub-optimal because it was the end of term time for the kids and getting away was hard. But we had a voucher for 50% off, and so we really wanted to use it. We hired this amazing hotel room with a pool and a deck. It was quite private. We could see that the other chalets were occupied, but not what people were doing. We spent two days lounging around, ordering room service, drinking the champagne we brought with us and connecting with each other. That resulted in quite a lot of sex. We made two MNLP vidoes -- one where she used a butt plug on me, and this other one, where we played with each other in the pool. It was a magical weekend and one we will treasure.