Looking back, this is where it began. I had the courage to ask for what I wanted in bed, and my wife was happy to oblige. I had been exploring anal play on my own. Then my wife started using fingers and toys on me. I FinalIy bought the pegging beginner's kit and plucked up the courage to ask my wife to peg me. rnI've seen so many videos pretending to be "the first time" I thought it would be fun to actually record my first time. I had no idea how intense it was going to be. I think it re-defined how I thought of myself and definitely showed me how pleasurable sex can be.rnI was 40 years old. Don't wait until you're 40. Start earlier.u2028I was a bit preoccupied with the cameras. We were shooting using two SD cameras onto DV tape and a stills camera that was on a remote trigger. u2028I was keen to try the "man-sized" dildo, but wisely followed my wife's advice to start with the "beginner." I figured she was the one with the experience with cocks. :-) She was pregnant with our second child at the time. rnI think this marked a high point in our relationship up to that point. And the openness that she showed to sexual exploration back then has given us the wonderful relationship we continue to have today.rnNow, ten years later, we are successfully polyamorous -- we both have other partners; I have had my nipple pierced; she's got a tattoo. I've topped a guy and have gone down on several real penises! So we've come a long way since we filmed this. rnLong may it continue.

We were watching some "forced orgasm" porn and thought it might be fun to try. So we bought a leg spreader and used it for the first time on camera. It was very exposing for her and a lot of fun for me, teasing and eventually bringing her to several squirting orgasms. Towards the end she goes down on me and then climbs on top for some lovely connecting sex. We used two cameras -- one to show off the leg spreader and one to capture her writhing and reacting in agonistic ecstasy.

The surprising thing about playing with rope is that the BDSM porn doesn't do it justice. We wanted to capture the intensity of sensation with this video. This is only the second time we've played with this full body harness. We have a lot to learn. We had a few hours one morning and decided to try a "karada" rope harness on camera. It was really intense. We will probably do more of that soon

She didn’t want to be on top. So how did he react? “OK! For the next ten times, you’re on top. You’re welcome to wake me up and ride me any time. In fact, I insist.” That’s difficult for her. She feels exposed. She feels indulgent.How would you react to that? An invitation to indulgence? One of the privileges of this platform (MLNP) is that we get to see the authentic responses of real people having real sex. This was the second or third session of our “obligatory cowgirl” experiment. And he decided to film her face as she was riding him. You can actually see her expression as she comes. And then he gets off as well. You will hear the conversation that all lovers have about their relationships as they have sex. He teases her about her being on top — she likes it, she’s aroused by it, she’s exposed by it, and he gets off on it too. It’s ten minutes long. That’s all we needed.

We like having sex outside. We wanted to have sex in a beautiful place and the verandah of our bungalow at the edge of the desert was magnificent. She typically has an orgasm on his hand first before we start with any penetration. He prefers missionary position, but we often end up doing it from behind in these videos -- he climaxes more reliably that way. While filming this intro, two men walked past the front of our bungalow on their way to the lodge restaurant, about 500m (500 yards) away. It made me think about consent, exhibitionism and voyeurism. You're watching this because we want you to; those men didn't necessarily want to see two naked strangers as they walked past. Having said that, we were discreet. We made sure we were concealed by a wooden pole wall. They didn't realise we were naked until they literally walked past us. We didn't even realise there was a path in front of us! It was a bit awkward seeing them in the restaurant over the next two days.

We were away for the weekend and she wanted to be tied up while we were away. She enjoyed being restrained and lightly flogged. And then she made me cum in my chastity cage and eat the cum from her hand

We nearly didn't post this.
It's a really intense raw scene. I think this is the kind of sex that Make Love Not Porn is supposed to promote. It shows the preparation; the awkwardness of trying a strapon dildo for the first time. The huge amounts of lube we used to make sure the anal was going to be safe and fun. It also showed something almost going wrong. After using the strapon, she penetrated him with her fingers. At one point it was so intense he just wanted to give up. But after a short break, she used a stainless steel buttplug on him and witnessed an epic orgasm. You can us chatting after the scene and debriefing what just happened. Later that night we made love again, which was just as intense -- but we didn't catch it on camera. If you're into pegging and seeing two real people orgasm, this one is for you.

Richedge writes: rnWe are polyamorous and I live with my nesting partner. My other partner and I work from her home together. On my way into work today, my partner said: "Bring your cameras." rnWe do video podcasting as well from time to time -- so it's not an unusual request, but I thought this seems different -- she wants to shoot a video.rnAnd indeed that was the case. She asked me to blindfold her and tease her and edge her for the camera. I was only too happy to oblige. Our deal is: if she touches me with her hands, I stop. I had to remind her several times to stop touching me!rnThis time was different -- we've been together a year, and she's never used an anal toy on me. I had been craving that for a while and so we broke out the stainless steel butt plug.rnOur 2019 resolution is to shoot more MNLP videos, so it was a real pleasure we could do that today.

We went away for a Dirty Weekend to a country hotel near us. Our anniversary is coming up (it's Christmas day) and we wanted to connect with each other intimately ahead of the silly season. We had a wonderful time. These weekends can be really transormative and offer an opportunity to really get to know each other again. We played with a butt plug, which is something we very seldom do, so that was a vulnerable moment for him.rn

We are in a polyamorous relationship. We hadn't seen each other all week. We were getting ready for a wedding and only had half an hour to spare -- so we made the most of it.rnWe were both so hot for each other it didn't matter that we were short of time. It was a very satisfying half hour.