The Big White Bed

An end-of-winter escape brought us to this delightful hideaway in the mountains of Mpumalanga. The verandah roof had been made into a sun-deck, and despite the effort it took James to get up there, we decided we had to make good use of it. Spring sunshine, strawberries, tea, chocolate and yummy sex left us both feeling very satisfied (and a little warm!)

Another one from our archives. We've been having so much fun going back through old hard drives looking for material we can share on MLNP. This video comes from a trip down to the West Coast of South Africa at the end of 2017. We rented a little "surf shack" out there with an amazing outdoor bathroom. Naturally we HAD to try out the shower, which was set against the little cliff face behind the hut. We had somehow managed to leave James's shower bench at home, but made a plan using a rickety stool we found in the garden. This led to some precarious moments, which, in combination with our constant battle with the unpredictable water temperature, and some glorious body scrub from Tamsin's dear Aunty Hazel, made for quite an adventurous shower! Lots of fun and laughter, and some really yummy play.

A crisp morning on a farm in the Cederberg mountains in South Africa in 2017. We creep out early and find ourselves a peaceful spot on the river where we can spend a few hours doing what we like most. This is a compilation of snippets of video from that morning: Tamsin takes a naked stroll down the river; we attempt to take naked selfies using the self-timer on our old DSLR and James helps himself to an early "breakfast" (wink wink). Afterwards, back at the cottage, James enjoys watching and photographing Tamsin doing yoga in her favourite outfit (bare skin, naturally)rn

Sex in the pool is one of James's favourite things in the world. Sadly for him, cold water is NOT one of Tamsin's! Fortunately, though, cold water was not a problem on this trip to Northern KwaZulu-Natal. And, so, in this beautiful bush veld spot, James got his way - lovely, luscious languorous sex-in-the-pool. And Tamsin didn't have reason to complain at all!

Our 20th wedding Anniversary trip was the first time we ever turned on a camera to film ourselves making love. We'd just recently had some major breakthroughs in our erotic journeying together, and the combination of newfound sexual freedom and energy, some time away from our kids, and an exquisite private valley in the Naukluft Mountains in Namibia meant we were eager to try new things. Filming ourselves making love was one of those things - and we loved it. Now whenever we go away together (which has since become a big priority for us) the cameras are the first things on the packing list.

A trip away to the Lowveld, a perfect morning filled with light and birdsong and a gentle breeze, a gorgeous white bed open onto the African bush right outside the door...These were the conditions that led to a session of slow, sensual, decadent lovemaking right before breakfast. Is there any better start to a birthday? (Happy Birthday, Tamsin!)

Another video from our 20th anniversary trip. Here we were with this beautiful valley all to ourselves, having the best sex of our lives (alfresco FTW!). We'd also just filmed ourselves for the first time the day before and discovered how much pleasure that gave us, so we were ready to try again. J had been talking about how he'd really love to eat me out in this video, but wasn't sure how we could accomplish that outdoors in the veld, factoring in his chair. This is exactly the sort of challenge I relish, and so of course I made a plan: Cue a pretty unusual (don't try this at home, folks) cunNULLingus position. J was initially caught by surprise, he says, but he set to work bringing his acrobatic partner off in style. I reciprocated a while later, and then we finished off with some yummy seated reverse cowgirl. All in all a very delicious alfresco "menu".

One of our "sexy adventures" brought us to this private cabin (with its own little pool!) on a game reserve in Northern KwaZulu-Natal. After spending a lazy morning lounging next the pool, we decided on a little "appetiser" before lunch. And so, with the local bird in full chorus, and wind whipping through the African bush, James sampled some of his favourite flavours, while Tamsin tried out some interesting "yoga" moves to get what she wanted.

We filmed this video on one our our Outdoor Adventures - on the same trip where we heard about MLNP for the first time. This was one of those occasions where A LOT went wrong - the most significant of which was an over-zealous property caretaker who obviously felt our request for absolute privacy didn't preclude him coming by to helpfully clean out the fire pit for us - while we were right in the middle of things. The results were hilarious, and watching this footage again made us both convulse with laughter at the memory of it all. It's good reminder that sex where nothing goes to plan can be a lot of fun, too!

We were all packed up and it was time to leave our delightful little love nest in the Lowveld after a lovely birthday weekend, but I (Tamsin) wasn't quite ready to go. After so much deliciousness with James I was feeling greedy and wanting even more before we drove away. So we got undressed, unpacked the camera and sneaked back into the bedroom one last time. James was very obliging - even though I made him do most of the work. I love this video - it has moments that make me laugh out loud - but I'll admit I was reluctant to post it, because my bloated, pre-menstrual belly is so obvious and sends me into all sorts of shame spirals when I see it in these frames. James, however, reminds me that one of the reasons we love MLNP so much is that it's all about the fact that real people people with all kinds of bodies, at all stages of life, on good hair- and bad hair days, love making love.