does this count as making love? I do believe so. Just playing with water, cocoa butter, candles, and salt scrub, whilst giving myself some much-wanted affection. I was feeling down actually- or, unable to find ease honestly, I was thinking of a lost lover. damn? so this session is some self-care. -dim lights -warmth ( actually quite hot water!) -humming -breathing -massaging -exhaling Making love to myself blurs into self-care and sensuality. We don’t HAVE to climax or just touch our erogenous zones to make love to ourselves or other people. One thing I learned from the mentioned lost lover..... is to remember all those parts of us that may be forgotten during sex. Like seriously, smooch a patella. Here’s an invite to join me, inspire some bath time and here’s looking beautiful with little bruises on thighs. -love lightning vase