Total Control

Even though Caning & Spanking is talked about more openly than ever before, I think a lot of people still feel that it is always about trying to hurt someone. Well, I’ve always enjoyed spanking and bondage play in my relationships as a way of introducing FUN and extra excitement. Something different that I never take too seriously. And whether I am the one giving or the one receiving, I actually find it to be a really strong, loving and sharing experience. And that can be a huge and wonderfully all consuming emotion. So I hope you will agree that my “Cane Love” video illustrates that perfectly.

They do say, don’t they, that having an intense sexy orgasm can be just like running a mini-marathon. Well this lover in particular always gives me such a powerful, engulfing, fucking that it’s like the most demanding physical workout one could possibly imagine. And, after a lovely playful sucking and fingering start, I’m sure you will see just what I mean as our fun builds to an exhausting climax.

“A Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” was actually filmed last summer, before our island vacation. But with everything going on in the world at that time, I didn’t really think it was appropriate to upload to my pages here at that particular moment. But looking back through my archives over the past few weeks I actually thought “well, why not???” After all, it was just a little bit of much-needed, enjoyable, self-indulgent fun. Just a quickie few minutes of Me-Time in my lunch-break. I hope you will enjoy joining me for lunch!!!

We’d had so much fun on the first evening in Lover No.14’s plush hotel room, that he insisted we come back again for the second night of his stay. I thought it would be fun to travel by train this time, with a different coat of course! But still naked underneath. I must say it added even more to the tingly anticipation of the evening ahead with those rhythmic vibrations of the train as it sped from station to station. And No.50 soon had me tied in knots with his lovely rope, completely exposed in front of the windows in full view of whom ever may be looking upwards from the station below.

When I submitted my first “modest” video here at MLNP in 2013, I thought it would be a one-off, just a bit of self-indulgent fun. But I was pleasantly surprised to soon start receiving emails to my blog page asking for more. And, in the six and a half years since, I have regularly been adding lots more. So much so that for this, my 69th video here, I thought it would be fun to put together a compilation of some of my most enjoyable 69-themed moments. With special thanks to Lovers 1, 14, 36 and 50.

I like sex, in fact I LOVE sex and it is always sexy and exciting sharing new experiences with a different lover. But I also have to feel comfortable with that person before I can become INTIMATE with someone new. Over the past few years I have “connected” with several people who have not only become regular lovers, but special friends as well. “A Gentler Squeeze” is with one of those special friends - Lover No.36. Although we had met for coffees on several occasions, we hadn’t been able to get together “intimately” since our “Secondary Squeeze” video late last year. So it was really lovely to be able to arrange a new meeting recently and make up for lost time.

I’ve always enjoyed a little role-play in my play sessions, especially if it involves bringing out my Fem-Dom tendencies. And in this latest video my No.1 submissive had told me he wished to be flogged up against the wall by a Mystery Masked Dominatrix. So, as long as it is fun and completely consensual, I always try to fulfil my submissives desires and fantasies. And as you will see, my slave got very excited at receiving my flogger and riding crop . . . and that got me excited too. So . . . Retribution AND Reward for the both of us!!!

My husband and I have been married for 29 years. For my first video for MLNP.tv is me playing with my toys, with my Hubby joining in occasionally whilst holding the video camera. You can learn more about our swinging sex life on my blog: modestyablaze.com.

I’ve just returned from a simply fabulous summer holiday on my favourite Greek Island. And as well as enjoying some lovely Sun and Sea, I also enjoyed some lovely Summer Sex. Because being on holiday, always makes me extra horny! And on this holiday I enjoyed some sexy fun I’d never indulged in before - Sex On the Beach!!! Well actually not sex on the beach as such - I just couldn’t stand all that sand getting stuck in my private bits, but Sex IN the SEA! It’s something I’d never done before but it was such sexy fun that I’m absolutely delighted to share it with you here.

For me sex should always be Fun, Exciting and Different . . . usually in that order. I call it the FED principle (as in my occasional whispers in Hubby's ear,"keep me Fed please"). This video is from the same evening as our most recent "Winding Up and Then Winding Down" video. It is ALL about the FED principle - although this time it is Hubby to whom it is applied as I take over the camera and let Lover 14 and Hubby play. And although he does get a playful beating, Hubby really does get his reward at the end. I know you will certainly find this video "Different" from my others, but I hope you will also find it "Exciting" and "Fun" as you, hopefully, get to join us for breakfast in the morning after the night before.