We went away for a Dirty Weekend to a country hotel near us. Our anniversary is coming up (it's Christmas day) and we wanted to connect with each other intimately ahead of the silly season. We had a wonderful time. These weekends can be really transormative and offer an opportunity to really get to know each other again. We played with a butt plug, which is something we very seldom do, so that was a vulnerable moment for him.rn

Looking back, this is where it began. I had the courage to ask for what I wanted in bed, and my wife was happy to oblige. I had been exploring anal play on my own. Then my wife started using fingers and toys on me. I FinalIy bought the pegging beginner's kit and plucked up the courage to ask my wife to peg me. rnI've seen so many videos pretending to be "the first time" I thought it would be fun to actually record my first time. I had no idea how intense it was going to be. I think it re-defined how I thought of myself and definitely showed me how pleasurable sex can be.rnI was 40 years old. Don't wait until you're 40. Start earlier.u2028I was a bit preoccupied with the cameras. We were shooting using two SD cameras onto DV tape and a stills camera that was on a remote trigger. u2028I was keen to try the "man-sized" dildo, but wisely followed my wife's advice to start with the "beginner." I figured she was the one with the experience with cocks. :-) She was pregnant with our second child at the time. rnI think this marked a high point in our relationship up to that point. And the openness that she showed to sexual exploration back then has given us the wonderful relationship we continue to have today.rnNow, ten years later, we are successfully polyamorous -- we both have other partners; I have had my nipple pierced; she's got a tattoo. I've topped a guy and have gone down on several real penises! So we've come a long way since we filmed this. rnLong may it continue.

It's Ricky here: We haven't made a video with each other for ages. I have another partner of about two years, and she and I are much more active making videos.rnMy wife had a favourite pair of trousers, which she wore to death. They started out white, but she dyed them black. They became frayed and worn and stained with bleach. Eventually she decided she would get rid of them. So I said: let's tear a hole in them and I can fuck you through the hole. Give them a proper send off. So that's what we did.rnIt's such a silly, fun thing to do. Thanks for watching!rn

We went away on a weekend before the end of year rush. The timing was actually sub-optimal because it was the end of term time for the kids and getting away was hard. But we had a voucher for 50% off, and so we really wanted to use it. We hired this amazing hotel room with a pool and a deck. It was quite private. We could see that the other chalets were occupied, but not what people were doing. We spent two days lounging around, ordering room service, drinking the champagne we brought with us and connecting with each other. That resulted in quite a lot of sex. We made two MNLP vidoes -- one where she used a butt plug on me, and this other one, where we played with each other in the pool. It was a magical weekend and one we will treasure.

We are in a polyamorous relationship. We hadn't seen each other all week. We were getting ready for a wedding and only had half an hour to spare -- so we made the most of it.rnWe were both so hot for each other it didn't matter that we were short of time. It was a very satisfying half hour.

We were watching some "forced orgasm" porn and thought it might be fun to try. So we bought a leg spreader and used it for the first time on camera. It was very exposing for her and a lot of fun for me, teasing and eventually bringing her to several squirting orgasms. Towards the end she goes down on me and then climbs on top for some lovely connecting sex. We used two cameras -- one to show off the leg spreader and one to capture her writhing and reacting in agonistic ecstasy.

We have been married 15 years. We were saying today we'd like to have a sexual adventure with each other. I had suggested to one of my other partners the idea of doing an MNLP video and tonight we decided to do one ourselves.We put the kids to bed, and turned on the cameras.We wanted to set up a camera to shoot his facial expressions, but finger trouble meant that didn't work out.Thanks for the opportunity. I think we're both a bit exhibitionist and this is a fun way to demonstrate that sex continues after 50.

Before we were MakeLoveNotPornstars we used to bring out the cameras for "special occasion" sex. That often meant pegging. This was a Saturday night. He loves editing the movies and getting lots of camera angles. For this video we have re-edited it very lightly to preserve the real world sex that it is. We're both much more comfortable in front of the camera in this video. He started off wearing a butt plug to warm himself up. After she pegs him, they end up in the missionary position. After he finishes, he heads south to give her some delicious head.

She didn’t want to be on top. So how did he react? “OK! For the next ten times, you’re on top. You’re welcome to wake me up and ride me any time. In fact, I insist.” That’s difficult for her. She feels exposed. She feels indulgent.How would you react to that? An invitation to indulgence? One of the privileges of this platform (MLNP) is that we get to see the authentic responses of real people having real sex. This was the second or third session of our “obligatory cowgirl” experiment. And he decided to film her face as she was riding him. You can actually see her expression as she comes. And then he gets off as well. You will hear the conversation that all lovers have about their relationships as they have sex. He teases her about her being on top — she likes it, she’s aroused by it, she’s exposed by it, and he gets off on it too. It’s ten minutes long. That’s all we needed.

The surprising thing about playing with rope is that the BDSM porn doesn't do it justice. We wanted to capture the intensity of sensation with this video. This is only the second time we've played with this full body harness. We have a lot to learn. We had a few hours one morning and decided to try a "karada" rope harness on camera. It was really intense. We will probably do more of that soon