The surprising power of being on top

We had been wanting to have sex in the garden for a long time. Finally we got a chance when the kids were out the house and it was warm enough to play outside. We were keen to reconnect with each other -- it had been a tough few days.

We had been wanting to make an MNLP video. As luck would have it, we had 40 minutes uninterrupted one morning to indulge ourselves and each other. This was the result. We hope you enjoy it.

We have been married 15 years. We were saying today we'd like to have a sexual adventure with each other. I had suggested to one of my other partners the idea of doing an MNLP video and tonight we decided to do one ourselves.We put the kids to bed, and turned on the cameras.We wanted to set up a camera to shoot his facial expressions, but finger trouble meant that didn't work out.Thanks for the opportunity. I think we're both a bit exhibitionist and this is a fun way to demonstrate that sex continues after 50.

The surprising thing about playing with rope is that the BDSM porn doesn't do it justice. We wanted to capture the intensity of sensation with this video. This is only the second time we've played with this full body harness. We have a lot to learn. We had a few hours one morning and decided to try a "karada" rope harness on camera. It was really intense. We will probably do more of that soon

It's Ricky here: We haven't made a video with each other for ages. I have another partner of about two years, and she and I are much more active making videos.rnMy wife had a favourite pair of trousers, which she wore to death. They started out white, but she dyed them black. They became frayed and worn and stained with bleach. Eventually she decided she would get rid of them. So I said: let's tear a hole in them and I can fuck you through the hole. Give them a proper send off. So that's what we did.rnIt's such a silly, fun thing to do. Thanks for watching!rn

We like having sex outside. We wanted to have sex in a beautiful place and the verandah of our bungalow at the edge of the desert was magnificent. She typically has an orgasm on his hand first before we start with any penetration. He prefers missionary position, but we often end up doing it from behind in these videos -- he climaxes more reliably that way. While filming this intro, two men walked past the front of our bungalow on their way to the lodge restaurant, about 500m (500 yards) away. It made me think about consent, exhibitionism and voyeurism. You're watching this because we want you to; those men didn't necessarily want to see two naked strangers as they walked past. Having said that, we were discreet. We made sure we were concealed by a wooden pole wall. They didn't realise we were naked until they literally walked past us. We didn't even realise there was a path in front of us! It was a bit awkward seeing them in the restaurant over the next two days.

Looking back, this is where it began. I had the courage to ask for what I wanted in bed, and my wife was happy to oblige. I had been exploring anal play on my own. Then my wife started using fingers and toys on me. I FinalIy bought the pegging beginner's kit and plucked up the courage to ask my wife to peg me. rnI've seen so many videos pretending to be "the first time" I thought it would be fun to actually record my first time. I had no idea how intense it was going to be. I think it re-defined how I thought of myself and definitely showed me how pleasurable sex can be.rnI was 40 years old. Don't wait until you're 40. Start earlier.u2028I was a bit preoccupied with the cameras. We were shooting using two SD cameras onto DV tape and a stills camera that was on a remote trigger. u2028I was keen to try the "man-sized" dildo, but wisely followed my wife's advice to start with the "beginner." I figured she was the one with the experience with cocks. :-) She was pregnant with our second child at the time. rnI think this marked a high point in our relationship up to that point. And the openness that she showed to sexual exploration back then has given us the wonderful relationship we continue to have today.rnNow, ten years later, we are successfully polyamorous -- we both have other partners; I have had my nipple pierced; she's got a tattoo. I've topped a guy and have gone down on several real penises! So we've come a long way since we filmed this. rnLong may it continue.

She wanted him to tell her what to do. What she got was five orgasms, before he came, hard. It's very hot remote sex. She used a buttplug, nipple clamps, a vibrator, a rose-quartz dildo and his voice to get herself over the line. Afterwards, they had a virtual snuggle session. Read their post-orgasmic text messages and listen to them recount their experience.

We nearly didn't post this.
It's a really intense raw scene. I think this is the kind of sex that Make Love Not Porn is supposed to promote. It shows the preparation; the awkwardness of trying a strapon dildo for the first time. The huge amounts of lube we used to make sure the anal was going to be safe and fun. It also showed something almost going wrong. After using the strapon, she penetrated him with her fingers. At one point it was so intense he just wanted to give up. But after a short break, she used a stainless steel buttplug on him and witnessed an epic orgasm. You can us chatting after the scene and debriefing what just happened. Later that night we made love again, which was just as intense -- but we didn't catch it on camera. If you're into pegging and seeing two real people orgasm, this one is for you.

We went away on a weekend before the end of year rush. The timing was actually sub-optimal because it was the end of term time for the kids and getting away was hard. But we had a voucher for 50% off, and so we really wanted to use it. We hired this amazing hotel room with a pool and a deck. It was quite private. We could see that the other chalets were occupied, but not what people were doing. We spent two days lounging around, ordering room service, drinking the champagne we brought with us and connecting with each other. That resulted in quite a lot of sex. We made two MNLP vidoes -- one where she used a butt plug on me, and this other one, where we played with each other in the pool. It was a magical weekend and one we will treasure.