Going Dutch with Tantra

I gave xTalon an assignment to notice nice things every day for a month. They didn't do it to my satisfaction. This recording is two hours into their 3 hour punishment: I'm edging them while they repeat a positive affirmation 1000 times. Stay to the end when I finally let them release. I love when they come.

This 69 minute BJ video is epic. My gimp hasn’t been allowed to come for over six months, so I’m going to keep him #SoClose for over an hour. He begins to edge at 23 minutes. I allow him release at 50:50. But even then I’m not done with him. Because he’s not done until I’m done. And boy do I finish. P.S. If you like my #feet, stay after his big finale. You’ll be glad you did.

When my gimp and I make love we have a special playlist we like to listen to. So, often after filming, we have to find novel ways to remove the background music, as we don’t have the rights to use it. In this video (from two different evenings together), we found ourselves deeply connected in pleasure while listening to this song (https://youtu.be/nOubjLM9Cbc). The footage was too beautiful not to share, so we dubbed audio from a different video of ours with no music playing. 
At times, the results feel like an old Kung Fu movie with English voice overs. It’s not perfect, but it was certainly fun to make – and that’s what makes it #RealWorldSex

After my December #RealWorldSex Watch Party (with MLNP founder, Cindy Gallop, as my guest co-host), my gimp got on his knees and worshipped me with his mouth. It was a pretty good night. Speaking of good, have you been to one of my virtual #RealWorldSex Watch Parties? If not, where have you been? Every month on the 20th, I choose a theme and share my favorite selections of MLNP previews. Want to join in? Visit https://realworldsex-watchparty23-goddesserica.eventbrite.com to RSVP, or reach out to the the MLNP curators to have one of your videos featured. All video previews are shared with each featured MLNPstar’s permission.

Hot Octopuss sent us a partnered stroker toy to try out, so we did. Filming this was a lot of fun, and I love how it captured the spirit of the way Big Daddy and I relate to each other as lovers and playmates. Especially when we resorted to rock-paper-scissors to decide who would be in control of the only working remote. ;) If you want to see more of us and other MLNPstars, you can join us LIVE every 20th at our monthly #RealWorldSex Watch Party where we share previews of MLNP videos like this one. https://realworldsex-watchparty23-goddesserica.eventbrite.com

Our friend TuchCreative came to town for a weekend of sightseeing and play, and this is what we got into first. We negotiated a shibari suspension with a little sensual touch (and tasting), but none of us suspected the magic that would play out as a result. Afterwards, when we watched the recording, we were shocked at how beautifully in sync we were. It almost looks choreographed. It's not! We were in a delicious state of flow. This is what it looks like to make love, not porn.

It's Dry January, and for this Tantric Dominatrix that means no sex. According to my rules (who else is going to tell me what to do?), I can kiss, cuddle, touch and be touched. So here in my first MLNP video, I'm slowly savoring the taste, scent and feel of my partner as we exchange energy while kissing and embracing. No one came. No one complained either. I hope you enjoy as much as we did. p.s. peep the cameo by my red Thinx #period panties. ;)

Time alone is a rare, blissful treat, so this morning I took a few minutes to commune with my pleasure. For almost nine minutes, my body barely moves as I narrow my focus to a single point just beneath my fingers. Join me for the ride.

I found myself a little distracted while writing saucy posts for MLNP's blog feed (https://makelovenotporn.medium.com/) so I decided to treat myself (and you!) to a #procrasturbation break.

I contain multitudes. Today, I'm less Domme. More mom. It's a (mostly) quiet Saturday afternoon and hubby and I have escaped to my loft for some alone time. We take our time reacclimating to each other. We chat, touch playfully and slowly sink into our rhythm. That is, until we're interrupted. This isn't our first (or 100th) interruption, so we find our way back quickly. ...Until the neighbors get noisy. The hour long timestamp on this video is proof we weren't deterred. Enjoy.