Going Dutch with Tantra

This is the final of four videos captured from a two hour lovemaking session between me and my gimp. All of it is unscripted and all of it is Tantric. During the first few minutes, we playfully use each others bodies to stretch before getting back to business. It’s a sweet, quiet moment that slips into body worship. With explosive results.

I love hiking in woods with my gimp. Especially when he's hungry.

Big Daddy, Captain CB and I are on Spring Break visiting Grandma and Bopbop’s new house in a different state. When Grandma and Bopbop offer to take Captain CB to the pool, Big Daddy and I spring into action to enjoy some much-needed us-time (we love our foreplay and aftercare, so enjoy the long vid). Spring break is all about having sex and hoping your parents don’t catch you, amirite? Well, we definitely almost got caught this time! Be sure to watch till the end to see how we play it cool when we hear the sounds of my in-laws and the kid returning home. Want to know who Captain CB is? Read my post about being a sex-positive parent on MLNP’s blog feed here: https://makelovenotporn.medium.com/sex-goddess-secrets-to-raising-a-sexually-empowered-kid-3135c3ded69f

Hubby and I love the power struggle of edging together. This particular morning, we decided to have a quick, mostly clothed, mostly quiet session while Captain CB was distracted in the other room in remote class. #PandemicLife Things get really intense at the end, when hubby's pounding and prolonged eye contact triggered a delicious Tantric wave of emotion that brought me to tears. Did you see my MLNP tee? You can get one of your own here: www.teepublic.com/user/makelovenotporn/t-shirts

When I worship myself, I take my time. I slowly savor the feel of my skin beneath my hands. I take my time expressing gratitude for every part I touch. I patiently offer myself blessings of acceptance. And my time is well spent. At the peak of my worship, the purest pleasure washes over me again and again. In these moments, I am fully one with myself. And nothing is more divine than that.

It's Dry January, and for this Tantric Dominatrix that means no sex. According to my rules (who else is going to tell me what to do?), I can kiss, cuddle, touch and be touched. So here in my first MLNP video, I'm slowly savoring the taste, scent and feel of my partner as we exchange energy while kissing and embracing. No one came. No one complained either. I hope you enjoy as much as we did. p.s. peep the cameo by my red Thinx #period panties. ;)

I gave xTalon an assignment to notice nice things every day for a month. They didn't do it to my satisfaction. This recording is two hours into their 3 hour punishment: I'm edging them while they repeat a positive affirmation 1000 times. Stay to the end when I finally let them release. I love when they come.

When it comes to being a working parent, there’s not a lot of down time. If you don’t schedule intentional breaks, it’s easy to end up tending to everyone else’s needs but your own. This video was captured by Big Daddy on a day off from work when no one else was home, and I love how he put forethought and planning into his self-pleasure. In true Dad fashion, he came prepared with gadgets, toys and TWO different kinds of lube. He even laid down a towel (which comes in handy at the end!)

I found myself a little distracted while writing saucy posts for MLNP's blog feed (https://makelovenotporn.medium.com/) so I decided to treat myself (and you!) to a #procrasturbation break.

Our friend TuchCreative came to town for a weekend of sightseeing and play, and this is what we got into first. We negotiated a shibari suspension with a little sensual touch (and tasting), but none of us suspected the magic that would play out as a result. Afterwards, when we watched the recording, we were shocked at how beautifully in sync we were. It almost looks choreographed. It's not! We were in a delicious state of flow. This is what it looks like to make love, not porn.