Tantric Lovemaking

Who says play can’t be intimate? My heart is open as I feel my ugly boy’d tongue glide over the soles of my feet. Again, and again and again… It’s truly Tantric.

Our friend TuchCreative came to town for a weekend of sightseeing and play, and this is what we got into first. We negotiated a shibari suspension with a little sensual touch (and tasting), but none of us suspected the magic that would play out as a result. Afterwards, when we watched the recording, we were shocked at how beautifully in sync we were. It almost looks choreographed. It's not! We were in a delicious state of flow. This is what it looks like to make love, not porn.

It's Dry January, and for this Tantric Dominatrix that means no sex. According to my rules (who else is going to tell me what to do?), I can kiss, cuddle, touch and be touched. So here in my first MLNP video, I'm slowly savoring the taste, scent and feel of my partner as we exchange energy while kissing and embracing. No one came. No one complained either. I hope you enjoy as much as we did. p.s. peep the cameo by my red Thinx #period panties. ;)

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After my December #RealWorldSex Watch Party (with MLNP founder, Cindy Gallop, as my guest co-host), my gimp got on his knees and worshipped me with his mouth. It was a pretty good night. Speaking of good, have you been to one of my virtual #RealWorldSex Watch Parties? If not, where have you been? Every month on the 20th, I choose a theme and share my favorite selections of MLNP previews. Want to join in? Visit https://realworldsex-watchparty23-goddesserica.eventbrite.com to RSVP, or reach out to the the MLNP curators to have one of your videos featured. All video previews are shared with each featured MLNPstar’s permission.

Does kissing count as sex? In the porn world, kissing is an optional check box on the escalator to penetration. But with #Tantra, kissing can become the most satisfying destination. In this video, you'll get a glimpse of how my gimp and I make love using only touch, eye contact, kissing and laughter. p.s. Does it count as #PeriodSex if I never took off my panties? I #Thinx so...

I gave xTalon an assignment to notice nice things every day for a month. They didn't do it to my satisfaction. This recording is two hours into their 3 hour punishment: I'm edging them while they repeat a positive affirmation 1000 times. Stay to the end when I finally let them release. I love when they come.

I love when he struggles beneath me.

When my gimp and I make love we have a special playlist we like to listen to. So, often after filming, we have to find novel ways to remove the background music, as we don’t have the rights to use it. In this video (from two different evenings together), we found ourselves deeply connected in pleasure while listening to this song (https://youtu.be/nOubjLM9Cbc). The footage was too beautiful not to share, so we dubbed audio from a different video of ours with no music playing. 
At times, the results feel like an old Kung Fu movie with English voice overs. It’s not perfect, but it was certainly fun to make – and that’s what makes it #RealWorldSex

When it comes to being a working parent, there’s not a lot of down time. If you don’t schedule intentional breaks, it’s easy to end up tending to everyone else’s needs but your own. This video was captured by Big Daddy on a day off from work when no one else was home, and I love how he put forethought and planning into his self-pleasure. In true Dad fashion, he came prepared with gadgets, toys and TWO different kinds of lube. He even laid down a towel (which comes in handy at the end!)