Even though Caning & Spanking is talked about more openly than ever before, I think a lot of people still feel that it is always about trying to hurt someone. Well, I’ve always enjoyed spanking and bondage play in my relationships as a way of introducing FUN and extra excitement. Something different that I never take too seriously. And whether I am the one giving or the one receiving, I actually find it to be a really strong, loving and sharing experience. And that can be a huge and wonderfully all consuming emotion. So I hope you will agree that my “Cane Love” video illustrates that perfectly.

I always take a collection of vibrators away on our holidays and my latest video here was filmed during the first week of our vacation last summer. I’d just finished recording an audio podcast for my blog, and had become so aroused from reliving some wonderful memories of an evening with one of my favourite lovers, that I just had to lie back on my apartment bed and indulge in some special vibrating Me-Time fun!!!

“A Me-Time Lunch Break in the Garage” was actually filmed last summer, before our island vacation. But with everything going on in the world at that time, I didn’t really think it was appropriate to upload to my pages here at that particular moment. But looking back through my archives over the past few weeks I actually thought “well, why not???” After all, it was just a little bit of much-needed, enjoyable, self-indulgent fun. Just a quickie few minutes of Me-Time in my lunch-break. I hope you will enjoy joining me for lunch!!!

Valentine’s is all about giving lots of loving & kisses isn’t it? Well “Valentine’s Kisses” certainly has lots of loving & kisses - ALL OVER! It is from just a few nights ago, an absolutely fabulous evening with Lover No. 50. No.50 is the most passionate kisser I have ever met, whichever of my lips he’s kissing me on, I just love feeling his lips sliding all over mine! This really is #realworldsex exactly as it happened. No editing or stopping & starting, no re-doing things, no scripting. I’ve been told by those who've rented my videos that watching them is like being in the room with us and that is so lovely because I think of my videos as being like diaries of my fun and laughter.

This video is with one of my most recent lovers, No.36. We’ve met several times & each evening has been more exciting & different from the last. And that’s what I enjoy about seeing different lovers! They are all exciting, all fun, all lovely to be with in different ways. There is never one that is more special to me than another! I love them all for their different personalities & the different things we do together. I love sharing new experiences with them & hopefully you’ll enjoy these different experiences too. Do let me know if you’d like to see more!!!

I’ve been incredibly lucky to have met some lovely people during the years of my swinging adventures, many of whom have become friends as well as lovers. But there is one particular person who has become one of the most special, and important, people in my life . . . more important and special than I could ever have imagined. Whether we are meeting for shopping expeditions, drinks after work or sexy playtimes with our Hubbies, every minute of our time together is filled with fun and laughter. “Strap On Fun” is my second MLNP video with She Lover and is from one of our most recent playtimes, featuring my favourite black strap-on. I think you’ll agree it’s obvious how much fun, and love, we always share!

I like sex, in fact I LOVE sex and it is always sexy and exciting sharing new experiences with a different lover. But I also have to feel comfortable with that person before I can become INTIMATE with someone new. Over the past few years I have “connected” with several people who have not only become regular lovers, but special friends as well. “A Gentler Squeeze” is with one of those special friends - Lover No.36. Although we had met for coffees on several occasions, we hadn’t been able to get together “intimately” since our “Secondary Squeeze” video late last year. So it was really lovely to be able to arrange a new meeting recently and make up for lost time.

For me sex should always be Fun, Exciting and Different . . . usually in that order. I call it the FED principle (as in my occasional whispers in Hubby's ear,"keep me Fed please"). This video is from the same evening as our most recent "Winding Up and Then Winding Down" video. It is ALL about the FED principle - although this time it is Hubby to whom it is applied as I take over the camera and let Lover 14 and Hubby play. And although he does get a playful beating, Hubby really does get his reward at the end. I know you will certainly find this video "Different" from my others, but I hope you will also find it "Exciting" and "Fun" as you, hopefully, get to join us for breakfast in the morning after the night before.

“New Red Rope” is my eighth MLNP film with Lover 14 and if you’ve rented any of those previous videos you will know one always has to expect the unexpected whenever he is involved. He is one of the most patient, and creative, lovers I have ever met. And this video is just Part One of a wonderfully fun evening that was full of waves of orgasms for all three of us . . . as well as lots of fun and laughter which I think perfectly illustrates just what #realworldsex is all about. I hope you will enjoy!!!

My husband and I have been married for 29 years. For my first video for MLNP.tv is me playing with my toys, with my Hubby joining in occasionally whilst holding the video camera. You can learn more about our swinging sex life on my blog: modestyablaze.com.