Tantric Stretch

Every single part of my body deserves love, so I end my daily bath ritual with a slow, deliberate oil massage. I begin at my feet, caressing the oil upwards towards my heart, and with each intentional breath, I inhale the scent of my skin kissed with lavender and vibrating with arousal. Spend the morning with me?

It's Dry January, and for this Tantric Dominatrix that means no sex. According to my rules (who else is going to tell me what to do?), I can kiss, cuddle, touch and be touched. So here in my first MLNP video, I'm slowly savoring the taste, scent and feel of my partner as we exchange energy while kissing and embracing. No one came. No one complained either. I hope you enjoy as much as we did. p.s. peep the cameo by my red Thinx #period panties. ;)

Our friend TuchCreative came to town for a weekend of sightseeing and play, and this is what we got into first. We negotiated a shibari suspension with a little sensual touch (and tasting), but none of us suspected the magic that would play out as a result. Afterwards, when we watched the recording, we were shocked at how beautifully in sync we were. It almost looks choreographed. It's not! We were in a delicious state of flow. This is what it looks like to make love, not porn.

Tantric sex isn't what you think it is. Sometimes it's slow, deliberate and sensual. Other times, it's a gleeful little bubble of chaos shared between two (or more) people. This video, filmed after a warm lakefront stroll, is the latter. We tumbled into bed after returning home, and I could not wait to put my mouth on him. His body hair and bellybutton lint had other plans, though. Join us, as we dance between erotic and playful; sinister and sweet.

When my gimp and I make love we have a special playlist we like to listen to. So, often after filming, we have to find novel ways to remove the background music, as we don’t have the rights to use it. In this video (from two different evenings together), we found ourselves deeply connected in pleasure while listening to this song (https://youtu.be/nOubjLM9Cbc). The footage was too beautiful not to share, so we dubbed audio from a different video of ours with no music playing. 
At times, the results feel like an old Kung Fu movie with English voice overs. It’s not perfect, but it was certainly fun to make – and that’s what makes it #RealWorldSex

I gave xTalon an assignment to notice nice things every day for a month. They didn't do it to my satisfaction. This recording is two hours into their 3 hour punishment: I'm edging them while they repeat a positive affirmation 1000 times. Stay to the end when I finally let them release. I love when they come.

I contain multitudes. Today, I'm less Domme. More mom. It's a (mostly) quiet Saturday afternoon and hubby and I have escaped to my loft for some alone time. We take our time reacclimating to each other. We chat, touch playfully and slowly sink into our rhythm. That is, until we're interrupted. This isn't our first (or 100th) interruption, so we find our way back quickly. ...Until the neighbors get noisy. The hour long timestamp on this video is proof we weren't deterred. Enjoy.

When it comes to being a working parent, there’s not a lot of down time. If you don’t schedule intentional breaks, it’s easy to end up tending to everyone else’s needs but your own. This video was captured by Big Daddy on a day off from work when no one else was home, and I love how he put forethought and planning into his self-pleasure. In true Dad fashion, he came prepared with gadgets, toys and TWO different kinds of lube. He even laid down a towel (which comes in handy at the end!)

Who says play can’t be intimate? My heart is open as I feel my ugly boy’d tongue glide over the soles of my feet. Again, and again and again… It’s truly Tantric.

It was a hot summer night after our #RealWorldSex Watch Party (monthly, every 20th!) and we were in the dungeon, so we decided to get sweaty. If you're curious about wearing latex clothes, this video shows you almost every reason why it's so much fun.