Me Time Test Drive 2: HO LEE SHIT!!!

🤷🏾‍♂️ Sometimes you get to eat the dessert 🍨 first. Yesterday I put in 75000 steps 🥵. The next day, before we head out for another grueling day of family fun in the 100 degree Florida sun☀️, I figure I'll take some time for myself FIRST. A notion so nice, I did it twice. I'm trying out some new camera angles, and I'm happy to share my results. Enjoy yourselves... and then enjoy yourselves again!

This is a new concept: Feeling Of Pleasurable Sensations or FOPS. The idea is if you don’t know what you like, how can you tell your lover? Take the time and learn how to ENJOY YOURSELF! I'm sharing this to show my wife that not only is it allowed... it's exhilarating! 😈🍆

Insomnia is a pain in the ass. It's 3:17 am and you're awake for no good reason. You know you can't go back to sleep so you angrily start planning your day which is gonna start in a couple hours. I used to do that- NOW instead of lamenting my lack of sleep, I figure I may as well enjoy myself. Everyone else IS asleep, after all. Then 💡☝🏾😲 saaaay...another lighting idea, this time only the light of the monitor. I like the way the shadows appear… what do you think? I wanted to make it last, so I went nice and slow. Enjoy! I know I did

EEEEEEEEE!! My wife and I are building a sex room! 🥳🤩😈 🎶I'm so excited and I just can't hide it!🎶 I'm cleaning out the space getting it ready, right? I'm clearing out an old drawer and I find... this big old cock ring with a ball stretcher. I forgot I had this thing. *shrug* Wife and kids are out of the house... Better make sure it still works, right? **Sorry for the bump in the middle- the damn iPhone tipped over. #Realworldsex, right? 🤷🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️**

My wife often asks why I post these. I hope to encourage people to take care of themselves, and also to share how HEALTHY and NORMAL it is for people to 'take a moment' in the shower. Sometimes as caregivers this is the one of the only free moments we GET! Therefore GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION to enjoy your private time however you see fit. Me personally... I like to know I'm being watched 😈🍆 but hey 🤷🏾‍♂️ you do you, as long as you ENJOY what you do 🚿😄🫨🤯🫠

I'm opening this side up to my wife so she can truly see more about me. For a lot of these, I simply felt like it. And that’s enough. Here, I simply FELT LIKE shooting this. So I did. *shrug* There is something so powerful in self ownership, isn’t there? I’m doing this and sharing it because I felt like it. I want her to see how simple and how empowering that concept is. Enjoy! 


Rather than fight the urges, i've found that if you just go with them every now and again you get more done. For instance, after this I did a load of laundry and emptied the dishwasher. 🤷🏾‍♂️ Caregivers, take time to take care of yourselves! It's not only a great way to relieve stress, it's actually HEALTHY. So go forth and ENJOY YOURSELVES!

I'm making new discoveries every day! Go ahead and laugh but... every since I saw the Suicide Girls shower on camera... I've ALWAYS wanted to try this! So I bought this tripod that's more like a set of tentacles, really. First time for everything, right? Let's see if it works!

I'm trying to show my wife what this wonderful community means to me, and what it's capable of. Here, I'm sharing the shaving that I do to groom myself. Aside from helping with the smell, I actually LOVE the way this feels. I don't care if people know that either. I know that someone else on here is encouraged to know that they can share just like I am. And... 🤷🏾‍♂️😈 I like knowing that people like to watch.

I'm experimenting with new toys and camera angles. Shout out to the Pelvic People and their OhNuts. These things are life savers. Had a nice quiet little sesh... hope it helps you be happy as well