It's Just Me! 290 lbs and dropping REWARD Me Time!

This is a quick experiment with my guy-brator the Hot Octopus. The damn thing keeps falling off, and I got tired of having to find medical tape, so I did a little arts and crafts. Cue the MacGuyver music: hot glue gun, velcro, and elastic. If I say 'strap on' it'll mean something different, but 😅... anyway, enjoy the test drive and ENJOY YOURSELF!

My wife often asks why I post these. I hope to encourage people to take care of themselves, and also to share how HEALTHY and NORMAL it is for people to 'take a moment' in the shower. Sometimes as caregivers this is the one of the only free moments we GET! Therefore GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION to enjoy your private time however you see fit. Me personally... I like to know I'm being watched 😈🍆 but hey 🤷🏾‍♂️ you do you, as long as you ENJOY what you do 🚿😄🫨🤯🫠

Have any of you had trouble keeping the Hot Octopuss Solo Lux on your 🍆 while 'in session'? 😨Mine keeps falling off! 😩 If so, I have devised a way to set it and forget it. All you need is a little toilet tissue and some medical tape. Trust me. I hope it helps someone out there, and as always 😈ENJOY😈 YOURSELF!

The caregivers among us are under a lot of pressure to perform the care they need and still maintain care for themselves. Often they sacrifice the latter for the former, which leads to all sorts of health problems dealing with the stress. To the caregivers, I urge you to TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES. I know it feels selfish sometimes and it may make you feel guilty but believe me: if you light yourself on fire to keep your family warm, all you'll get is BURNT OUT. Take time to slip away and do something to replenish yourself! Have a quick hot cup of tea... steal a moment to read a quick chapter of a book... or... 😈 slip away and have yourself a good time... It's OK! You're allowed! 🤓😄

It is easy for the ❤️caregivers❤️ out there to pass yourself by so you can care for someone else. ☝🏾🤨BUT!! When you work 💪🏾hard and hit your ✊🏾physical 🚲fitness goals, 😁REWARDING YOURSELF IS MANDATORY!😁 Don't discount your progress, 🥳CELEBRATE IT! I just hit a major milestone, and I'm taking some 😈me-time🍆 to reward myself with a quick edging session in the 🧼shower🚿. I want to share it to show that self-care is wonderful, healthy, and your right as a loving human who cares for others! Using some better sound, new tech, and created a new tune just for the occasion. 😈Enjoy yourself 😈- ESPECIALLY when you've earned it! And as always, 🙏🏾thanks😊 for watching!

Whenever life gets you stressed out, it’s perfectly normal to want to be by yourself and play with your toys. Solo play makes us feel better, right? 😈🍆

I'm opening this side up to my wife so she can truly see more about me. For a lot of these, I simply felt like it. And that’s enough. Here, I simply FELT LIKE shooting this. So I did. *shrug* There is something so powerful in self ownership, isn’t there? I’m doing this and sharing it because I felt like it. I want her to see how simple and how empowering that concept is. Enjoy! 


Hello everyone! My wife and I are taking our first steps into 😈kink❤️, and well... the idea she proposed got me so turned on I just had to go handle things🍆. I was feeling so naughty I filmed it real quick...I had to keep it quiet so no one would hear me... I managed to not only edge, but have TWO back to back orgasms. ✊🏾😆 FUCK YES! 😨 Sssshhhh...🤫... This is as real world as it gets, and I love knowing that I'm helping YOU get pleasure, whoever you are. Now GO ENJOY YOURSELF! I sure as hell did! *Note: The music in the background is my creation. Also, sorry for the noise at the end... my hands were slippery. 🤷🏾‍♂️

*shrug* 🤷🏾‍♂️ It's Friday... the wife n kids ain't home... and I got shit else to do right now. What can I say? Sometimes you just need to get naked, sit down with your favorite cock ring and just have a good time. And if you just happen to have some Afghan Moon nearby, all the better.

I've been really exploring this new side of myself, and I'm happy to have this community to share the experience with. Sexual expression seems to have endless possibilities! This time I got a wild idea about lighting and figured I'd film it to see how it turned out.