A Christmas Gift

Bathed in the pink glow, Andre and I set out to capture a Valentine’s Day moment. It ended up not going perfectly, as sometimes happens with sex, and we ended up being slow to get this one published, but we are excited to share our sweet time together- my favorite way to orgasm- being fingered- with Andre caressing and loving me in the ways that make my skin tingle and my heart melt.

Sometimes you go on a trip for your birthday and you just get spoiled and pampered. This time around Lynn was pulling out the birthday pleasures for me. She even put on some of Cindy Gallops boss bitch MLNP red lipstick to spread around in other places. Enjoy these birthday delights like I have.

An afternoon moment where we had uninterrupted time and new phones to test out the video quality- sold! Enjoy a POV look at sexy time with Andre and Lynn. Yes, there are the typical mishaps that happen during our sex (always with the batteries on the vibrators!), but this video gives a little glimpse of our more lighthearted sexual side, with a little less pressure than the usual production of all of the cameras. And bonus- we got a great view from our full length mirror while we did it!

Growing up in a Christian conservative household greatly impacted my view of masturbation and sex in general. There was no education about self-love because it fell in the category of “it is wrong, don’t do it”. And so I am just now as an adult, married woman, starting to understand the importance of taking this time for me- not only to understand what is enjoyable and brings me pleasure in sex, but to prioritize my time for this activity that is 100% about me. I am beginning to work through my past to help my present and my future and a big piece of that is saying yes to self-love on a regular basis. And this morning, I invited Andre to do a little filming...He gave me this toy for Valentine’s Day last year and I am just now starting to use it by myself. Last year’s V-Day gift vibe has never been used by itself. Now that’s changing.

This is our first video. Well, the first video we are going to publicly share, that is. We have been married for 13 years, and we were both virgins when we got married. We would love to say that we blissfully enjoyed all these years of physical relationship with each other, but the truth is, we are just now coming into our own sexually. Both of us were brought up in very religious homes, there was just a lot of sexual repression due to the "sin" associated with most sexual acts, apart from sex inside of marriage. The true sexual awakening for both of us has been happening over the last couple of years. We are finding new ways to engage each other, while figuring out new expectations for what a truly free and healthy relationship looks like from a sexual perspective. We don't always arrive at the same outcome, but the good news is that we are giving each other space to discover our truest sexual selves, and we both feel great about it. So being apart of this community for us represents a piece of that exploration, so we hope you enjoy being part of the journey.

After teasing each other all day, we wanted a mid day quickie. This means no usual camera set ups and that it had to be a phone. Well, we were primed and horny so we did what we could by enjoying each others flirts and arousal. Not every time has to be an elaborate time.

Andre has been traveling for work quite a bit and he and I have been working on staying connected while we are physically apart. It is a challenge to say the least, especially when the days are long for both of us, living and working in separate cities. Technology certainly helps and we have found that masterbating over FaceTime has been a fun and sexy way for us to have some intimacy while he is on the road. This particular day, I woke up early and was horny. I knew that we were going to make space and time for each other later in the day, but I thought it would be fun to go ahead and send Andre a few sexy videos to wake up to… so i grabbed the phone, a tripod and let my fingers do the rest. It certainly started the day off right for me and I think it did for Andre too.

We finally got away for a romantic weekend together, and this time we chose New York City as our destination. We started off the weekend with an amazing visit to the Museum of Sex. Later in the evening, we dined at a friend's restaurant, savoring delicious food and great company. The following day, we had the incredible opportunity to meet Cindy Gallop, the founder of MakeLoveNotPorn, in person! After spending time with her, we couldn't resist breaking a bit of dry spell of filming our real-world sexual experiences. Thankfully, Andre always carries a camera or two with him, so we had some equipment available to capture some beautiful moments. It was incredibly hot and a lot of fun. Witness us enjoying each other and turning up the heat. Cheers!

One of the benefits of being part of such a great website like MakeLoveNotPorn is that we get paid a fair portion from every rental. We got paid and used the money to get a swanky hotel in our city for carefree time together. And while in this extra sexy room, why not make another couple videos? This is the first of two parts of our wonderful, carefree time together that didn’t have the time restraints of everyday life. Sex without pressure. We love being apart of this community that encourages us to celebrate one of the more beautiful aspects of life! Thanks MLNP for making this possible!

We started a leisure-filled morning with a little breakfast and coffee. As we soaked up the morning views from our favorite room (the sunroom), we also got a little silly and sexual. Sometimes pleasure comes from taking time individually, so while a little vibrator action got started, the camera came out and we captured a fun session of caressing, clit stimulation, dick slapping and a little anal exploration.