A Christmas Gift

Growing up in a Christian conservative household greatly impacted my view of masturbation and sex in general. There was no education about self-love because it fell in the category of “it is wrong, don’t do it”. And so I am just now as an adult, married woman, starting to understand the importance of taking this time for me- not only to understand what is enjoyable and brings me pleasure in sex, but to prioritize my time for this activity that is 100% about me. I am beginning to work through my past to help my present and my future and a big piece of that is saying yes to self-love on a regular basis. And this morning, I invited Andre to do a little filming...He gave me this toy for Valentine’s Day last year and I am just now starting to use it by myself. Last year’s V-Day gift vibe has never been used by itself. Now that’s changing.

Sometimes you go on a trip for your birthday and you just get spoiled and pampered. This time around Lynn was pulling out the birthday pleasures for me. She even put on some of Cindy Gallops boss bitch MLNP red lipstick to spread around in other places. Enjoy these birthday delights like I have.

Andre was working on our most recent video in our studio and I was horny, so I did what I love to do to him - tease and distract him. I texted him that I was coming down to visit, and by the time I got there, he had his cameras set up and ready to go. Fun for me. Fun for him. Fun for everyone.

We decided it was time for a mattress upgrade and as everyone knows, once you get a new bed, you have to test out its capabilities. We turned our at-home lunch break into a little quality time in the bedroom. The results are in- the bed is great, but even more so is our enjoyment of each other. Even with all of our flaws, we love the silly, quirky and sexy moments that attribute to our life together. We hope you enjoy our first time making love in the new bed.

Andre has been traveling for work quite a bit and he and I have been working on staying connected while we are physically apart. It is a challenge to say the least, especially when the days are long for both of us, living and working in separate cities. Technology certainly helps and we have found that masterbating over FaceTime has been a fun and sexy way for us to have some intimacy while he is on the road. This particular day, I woke up early and was horny. I knew that we were going to make space and time for each other later in the day, but I thought it would be fun to go ahead and send Andre a few sexy videos to wake up to… so i grabbed the phone, a tripod and let my fingers do the rest. It certainly started the day off right for me and I think it did for Andre too.

It was a tough away work trip but I knew I would have some solid moments to myself, so I packed my go pro and a little bag of sexy treats for my pleasure. I have been practicing self pleasure without outside stimulation with the idea of simply turning myself on because I am sexy. I am the source of my erotic life and I want to indulge in me. I was worn ragged at work, but it was my last morning and my start time was the afternoon so I had some time to be sexy. I grabbed my supplies, set up the camera, and also set up my phone so I could watch myself through the camera. This has taken a lot practice for me to work through this idea as I dislike my body on camera. But through therapy and practice, this is and can be such a great turn on. What wasn’t a turn on was forgetting my lube. I didn’t let it stop me. I kept calm and stroked on to a full body orgasm.

We started a leisure-filled morning with a little breakfast and coffee. As we soaked up the morning views from our favorite room (the sunroom), we also got a little silly and sexual. Sometimes pleasure comes from taking time individually, so while a little vibrator action got started, the camera came out and we captured a fun session of caressing, clit stimulation, dick slapping and a little anal exploration.

We finally got away for a romantic weekend together, and this time we chose New York City as our destination. We started off the weekend with an amazing visit to the Museum of Sex. Later in the evening, we dined at a friend's restaurant, savoring delicious food and great company. The following day, we had the incredible opportunity to meet Cindy Gallop, the founder of MakeLoveNotPorn, in person! After spending time with her, we couldn't resist breaking a bit of dry spell of filming our real-world sexual experiences. Thankfully, Andre always carries a camera or two with him, so we had some equipment available to capture some beautiful moments. It was incredibly hot and a lot of fun. Witness us enjoying each other and turning up the heat. Cheers!

An afternoon moment where we had uninterrupted time and new phones to test out the video quality- sold! Enjoy a POV look at sexy time with Andre and Lynn. Yes, there are the typical mishaps that happen during our sex (always with the batteries on the vibrators!), but this video gives a little glimpse of our more lighthearted sexual side, with a little less pressure than the usual production of all of the cameras. And bonus- we got a great view from our full length mirror while we did it!

Bathed in the pink glow, Andre and I set out to capture a Valentine’s Day moment. It ended up not going perfectly, as sometimes happens with sex, and we ended up being slow to get this one published, but we are excited to share our sweet time together- my favorite way to orgasm- being fingered- with Andre caressing and loving me in the ways that make my skin tingle and my heart melt.